
By Christie Love
What does life really look like when you’re approaching 40?
Not the highlight reel…
Not the “I’ve got it all together” version…
But the real, in-between season where you’re juggling faith, family, a full-time job, and a calling that won’t let you stay comfortable.
This is where I am right now.
And if you’re here too… I want you to know—you’re not behind. You’re being prepared.
This Season Is Stretching Me (But It’s Also Growing Me)
As I step into this new chapter of life, I’ve realized something:
Everything I’ve gone through…
Every challenge, every delay, every lesson…
It wasn’t punishment.
It was preparation.
God has been using my past to build the wisdom I need for right now.
And instead of resisting this season, I’m learning to lean into it.
As I step into this new chapter of life, I’ve realized something:
Right now, I wear a lot of hats:
- Mother
- Full-time accountant
- Entrepreneur building a digital marketing business
- Woman of faith growing spiritually
And if I’m being honest…
It can feel overwhelming.
There are moments where I wonder if I’m doing enough in each area… or if I’m falling short somewhere.
But I’m learning this:
👉 I don’t have to do everything perfectly
👉 I just have to be a good steward over what God has placed in my hands
From 15-Year Career to Building Something New
I’ve spent 15 years working in banking.
And while I’m grateful for the stability, the experience, and the lessons…
I know this isn’t where my story ends.
I’m stepping into entrepreneurship.
I’m building a digital marketing business.
I’m creating something that gives me freedom—financially and spiritually.
And instead of resenting my job…
I’m starting to see it differently.
👉 It’s not a trap
👉 It’s a stepping stone
What I’m Working Toward Next
This next chapter is about alignment.
- Growing my digital marketing business
- Helping other women create income online
- Completing my real estate license
- Creating multiple streams of income
- Building a life that reflects both faith and freedom
I’m not rushing it anymore.
I’m building it the right way.
Taking Care of Me (Because I Matter Too)
One thing God has really been dealing with me about…
Is how I take care of myself.
Not just spiritually—but physically and mentally too.
I’ve been:
- Eating better
- Being more intentional about movement
- Paying attention to my mental health
- Creating space to breathe
Because I can’t pour into everything and everyone else…
and neglect myself.
You’re Not Behind—You’re Being Prepared
If you’re in a season where life feels full… stretched… uncertain…
I want to remind you:
✨ You are not behind
✨ You are not late
✨ You are not doing life wrong
You are being prepared.
And everything you’re carrying right now?
It’s building the version of you that can handle what’s coming next.
If this resonated with you, I’d love to stay connected with you on this journey 💕
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